Have you ever had an argument that goes around in circles and doesn't get resolved? Try resolving a conflict by saying what you observe, what you feel and what you need in a way that focuses on the truth. A script for non-violent communication could go something like this: "When [blank] happens, I feel [blank]. In the future, I would like [blank]." For example: “Hi, Yeti. I see you ate the last slice of pizza and I am feeling disappointed that you ignored my request to save it for another mod. In the future, please ask to make sure you can eat all the pizza so that we don't leave any mods hungry."